Tag: Love and War

I’ve Met His Friends, But He Doesn’t Acknowledge Us On Social Media

Being a crime based site, I normally don’t post relationship stuff, but every now and then a story will intrigue me enough and I feel compelled to share.

Today’s social media phenomena has created and facilitated an abundant need for people to feel loved, I call it computer love. The need for computer love is so great that a large portion of society, both old and young, now feel that if their real life relationship is not validated by “In a Relationship” or “Married To” social media status, then it is not valid at all. Some will even settle for a “It’s Complicated.”

The need to feel computer loved is real, but is it ruining people’s lives? Apparently so!

Dear Bossip,

I have been dating this guy for almost a year and everything is great between us.

It’s a long distance relationship, but it’s a 3 hour drive and we try to see each other every month or so. He has a very small circle of friends that he actually hangs with on a daily basis and I’ve met them. I haven’t met his mom because she is heavily religious and unless he proposes that’s when she would want to meet me. But, she does know of me. I also met his grandfather.
However, the problem I’m having is that his friends have no knowledge of our relationship on social media, which bothers me because I have trust issues from past relationships. And, he knows this, but according to him the 4,000 plus friends that he has on there doesn’t matter. He says that the people that matter in his life know of me. So, I don’t know if I should be concerned or just leave it alone because I don’t see why a guy wouldn’t want to put that out there if he has a girlfriend if he’s that happy.

– Why Hide Me

Check out the response to Why Hide Me via Bossip: Dear Bossip: I’ve Met His Friends, But He Doesn’t Acknowledge Us On Social Media — Bossip

Chris Brown’s Lawyer Says LAPD Found No Guns Or Drugs At His Home

Something in the milk just wasn’t clean about the lie story that Chris Brown’s gun accuser, Baylee Curran was telling.

According to Bossip, Brown’s defense attorney is saying that they have proof that the dethroned beauty queen was sharing falsehoods the entire time and there were no guns found in his Hollywood home.

Via TMZ:

Chris Brown’s attorney, Mark Geragos, says a woman’s claim Chris pointed a gun at her is nothing more than a false accusation made in hopes of becoming famous.

Geragos addressed the media Friday — and made it clear — he says no guns or drugs were found by cops in the singer’s home. He also stated reports Brown’s 2-year-old daughter, Royalty, was home during the alleged incident are total BS.

It’s interesting … Mark said his office is still investigating the validity of text messages Baylee Curran allegedly sent which show she was trying to set Chris up. Geragos said if it’s found Curran did lie, he’ll call for a criminal investigation against her.

It’s really a shame that someone can just make up a lie and sell it to the tabloids as gospel. Let this be reminder to us all –to keep an eye on the company we keep.

Take the poll and tell me if you think Baylee should be held accountable for her lie(s).

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19 Men Talk About What Makes Them ‘Suddenly Uninterested’

I absolutely LOVE the Thought Catalog. Its like a writer’s convention online!

Check out this post I found in which 19 guys share their inner feelings about relationships. Something that doesn’t happen often. Ladies take notes!

1. Telling me how many other guys supposedly want to be with you

“Telling me that so many guys are chasing her or want to go out with her, that just makes me uninterested as it makes me feel inadequate because no one is chasing me.”

2. You’re always drunk

“If getting drunk and high is their only personality”

3. Your life on social media is more important than your actual life

“Social media obsessed. Cant you just stop taking fucking selfies and stop updating your page for one outing. Instant mood killer.”

4. Acting like you don’t care

“People who pretend they don’t care about things to sound laid-back or cool.

5. Bad listeners

“Besides smoking. If she can’t seem to remember anything I tell her, I take it as lack of interest.”

6. Obsessed with horoscopes and astrology

“What is it called in english when someone follows too much that thing about taurus, pisces and those others? yes, that.”

7. Smokers

“Smoking. A woman can tick all the boxes I can think of, but if she turns out to be a smoker, I’m out.”

8. The type of photos you post online

“Duck face photos online. Instant nope. ‘I’m a gifted photographer.’ Yep, So is every other girl I’ve seen with a camera.”

9. Too religious

“Unfortunately I’ve discovered as soon as I hear “God/Jesus/Cthulhu comes first!” I have almost no interest whatsoever. I’ve tried to be more open minded about it but I just can’t.”

10. Intellectually un-stimulating

“I don’t know whether this would fall under ignorance or lack of culture, but I became suddenly disinterested in a girl a couple weeks ago when she said on the first date, ‘I don’t read.’ We were talking about our vehicles, and I mentioned how I drive a real clunker of a car named ‘Rocinante’ after the unreliable, overburdened horse in Don Quixote. She had no idea what I was talking about. Upon further inquiry, it came to light that she simply does not read anything. No books, no news, no research, no magazines — nothing. I read almost anything I can get my hand on, and I couldn’t help but lose nearly all attraction for her when she said that.”

11. Immaturity

“Posting photos on social media showing how cool they are because they’re always getting drunk. I don’t mind drinking, but I find it really immature when people do that.”

12. Saying sorry too much

“Constantly apologizing for things, not because they did anything wrong, but because they are extremely insecure.”

13. Drama queens

“Drama. STDs. Mental illness. Presenting as weak or as a dependent.”

14. Whiners

“Complaining …ugh”

15. Claiming you’re being used for sex

“When she shames you for being sexually attracted to her and wanting to be intimate with her(have sexual urges for her) or when she says “All you want me for is sex”. I don’t deal with that type of manipulation, and when it happens the love is gone.”

16. Sloppy drunks

“When she can’t handle her alcohol. My ex never knew when to stop drinking. She’d start acting like an 8 year old, would throw food at people, and would drool all over herself. And of course the night would end with her crying all night for 1-2 hours. Amazingly effective at turning me off. There’s a reason she’s my ex…”

17. When you don’t like children

“Finding out she doesn’t like kids. Was into this girl until I found that out, and instantly lost any feelings for her. (Well, mostly. She still has amazing cleavage, and I’m only human).”

18. Your views on vaccination

“Anti-vaccine people. Happened to the last girl I dated.”

19. Talking about your diet

“Well as a vegan..”

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