My best friend and I have been inseparable since high school. We shared everything from clothes, shoes and even makeup –but never men. She has been dating her current for about 2 years and at first I really liked him and encouraged their fast love budding relationship. As time progressed, I started to see some of the disrespectful things he was doing behind my friend’s back but I never really got into their business because I didn’t want to risk our friendship. I kept my opinions and observations to myself, in hopes that she would one day open up the conversation, then I would tell all.
One night while I was out with some other friends I bumped into my best friend’s boyfriend at a local nightclub. He had clearly had too much to drink and he awkwardly began confessing to me how he “always thought I was sexy” as if I was supposed to feel honored. I scoffed at his advances and threatened to tell my best friend, but he assured me that she wouldn’t believe me because he had her in his words, “in her place”. Later that night after the club I spotted him KISSING another female who had just by chance happened to be parked by my car. I couldn’t hold it any longer and when I went to confront him the female acted as if he was her man and that they had been dating each other for a while.
I am devastated for my friend who is planning to marry this guy next year. She honestly thinks he is a good guy and would never do these kinds of things to her. Boy is she wrong!
Should I tell my bestie that her man is a no good cheater or should I keep quiet, act like none of this has happened and let her see who this guy is for herself?
Please tell me what I should do! Time is running out!